The friend always caused drama and made everything about her on the woman’s big day – so the bride got fed up and decided to block her from her life after her wedding
She says her friend even pressured her into making her a bridesmaid (stock photo)(
A newlywed woman blocked a bridesmaid from her life completely the day after her wedding as she couldn’t stand her loud opinions, lateness and rude attitude any longer.
They were friends for some time but things took a turn when the woman got engaged as she saw her friend for who she really was.
The woman did not even have the intention of making her a bridesmaid but was pressured into it by her.
In a Reddit post, the newlywed added that the friend arrived late on the big day and forced people to look after her and not focus on the bride.
Her friend even arrived late on the big day (stock photo)(
The woman, who remained anonymous, wrote: “Things didn’t really start to take a turn in our friendship until I got engaged.
“She was insistent on going so that she could be a bridesmaid. however, I had no intention of asking. She pressured me into making her one.”
The newlywed added that her friend even took issue with the bridesmaid’s dresses and wanted to make her opinions known.
“I eventually settled on everyone wearing a maxi dress in the same shade of green. She immediately took issue with the length of the dress because she didn’t like it,” she wrote.
“I told her I wasn’t changing it solely for her and even said if she didn’t like it she didn’t have to be in the bridal party. She finally gave in and found herself a dress.”
Further issues arose at the bridal shower when her friend dragged her off so she could take pictures of her friend – not with the friend, of her.
She told the friend their friendship was over (stock photo)(
She said: “I did not invite her to my bachelorette party because of how she acted. The wedding day itself was beautiful! it was everything I had wanted! However, she arrived at the venue late when my other bridesmaids and I were almost done getting ready.”
When she saw the bridal party getting ready, she demanded people stop steaming the bride’s dress to steam hers instead.
And when they were doing the photos after the ceremony, the bridesmaid complained to the photographer about being too far on the sides, and in the reception she even started to air her grievances to the groom.
“She said she felt excluded from planning. She also called another bridesmaid a b***h and said she got bad vibes from her. She said all of this with other people being able to hear her.”
When her husband told her about this conversation after the wedding, the bride decided it would be best to block the friend from her life and told her the friendship was done.
In response, many sided with the newlywed and suggested she is better off for getting the friend out of her life.
One person wrote: “Baggage is gone. Now remove her from your mind and enjoy the honeymoon.”
While another stated: “So sorry that happened to you. You made the right call in the end.”
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