Going on a date can be a lot of fun. Unfortunately, it can also put a big dent in your bank account. These days the average cost of a date, consisting of two dinners, a bottle of wine, and two movie tickets, runs around $103. If someone is going on one or two dates a week, that can add up pretty quickly. And if you’re also planning and saving money for a wedding, you’re likely in need of some cheap date night ideas to nurture your relationship during a somewhat stressful time.
Luckily, it isn’t necessary to spend tons of money to have a fun, romantic time with your significant other. And it’s super important to keep nurturing your relationship in the midst of wedding planning!
What follows are 27 date night ideas that don’t cost much (and some are even free!).
Fun & Cheap Date Night Ideas for Couples on a Budget
Whether you’re just getting to know each other or you’ve been married for years, here are some ways to enjoy a romantic day or evening out without busting your monthly budget.
1. Watching the Sunrise or Sunset Together
Watching the sun come up or sink over the horizon with your sweetie can be a very romantic and cute date idea. Depending on which time of day you choose, you can bring coffee and donuts or a bottle of wine and some cheese and crackers to mark the occasion.
2. Taking Dance Lessons
Couples can show off their moves while taking a lesson in salsa, ballroom dancing, or swing. Consider a home viewing of “Dirty Dancing” afterward to close out the date.
3. Going on a Hike
Getting some fresh air and walking in a beautiful area together can be a great bonding experience. To make sure you take on more miles (or hills) than you can handle, you can read reviews of hikes and check out trail maps online before you head out.
4. Picking Apples or Berries
This can be a great idea for a “sweet” date. In the fall, couples can pick apples together and then go home and make some baked apples or an apple pie. In the summer, consider heading to a local farm to pick berries. You can use your harvest to make some tarts or smoothies afterward.
5. Checking Out a Botanical Garden
Many towns have beautiful botanical gardens where people can walk around. This is a lovely way to spend a Sunday afternoon and it should be either free or low cost.
6. Staying In and Watching a Movie
When it comes to cheap date night ideas, Netflix and chill is always near the top of the list. You probably already have a Netflix, Hulu, or Amazon Prime subscription. Why not take advantage and watch a movie together at home? You can open some wine and order a pizza or inexpensive takeout. Or cook a homemade meal together and make it special!
7. Gardening Together
Another cute date idea is to garden together. Whether you and your honey live together or apart, you can start your own garden and fill it with flowers, herbs, and vegetables. At the end of the day, you’ll have a shared sense of accomplishment.
8. Checking Out a Free Museum
Some museums are always free, while others will have free days throughout the month. Couples can go and see cool artwork and have stimulating conversations about the artists.
9. Going to a Free Concert
Many towns will hold free concerts in the park during the summer. You can bring a blanket and some food and enjoy a picnic dinner while listening to great live music. When it comes to planning a cheap date night, FREE entertainment is always a winning idea!
10. Taking a Scenic Drive
You can pick somewhere you’ve never been or head to a favorite spot, such as a nice drive in the country or along the coastline. Consider creating a playlist of tunes you both love for the ride.
11. Breaking Out the Board Games
Who doesn’t love a little competition? This can be a great idea whether you play against one another or with another couple. You can even throw in some prizes from the Dollar Store to up the ante just a bit.
12. Eating at Happy Hour
Instead of going out to dinner–which can be pricey–couples can find out which establishments have a happy hour and then go and enjoy some appetizers and drinks for a cheap date idea.
13. Visiting Open Houses
Whether you are actually looking to buy a house or just want to be a voyeur, or pick up some design ideas, consider checking out open houses in your area. You can search for open houses on sites like Redfin and Zillow.
14. Cooking a Dish Together
For a fun and tasty evening, you might go to your local farmer’s market or grocery store and then come home and make a gourmet meal together. If neither of you is skilled in the kitchen, you can order a meal delivery service that sends all the instructions and ingredients you need.
15. Checking Groupon for Deals
Running low on cheap date night ideas? You can often find some interesting things to do for date night by checking Groupon to see what experiences are on sale. You might find a wine-and-paint night or perhaps a sale on arcade tickets.
16. Renting a Pool
For a fun date on a hot summer day (or night), consider checking out Swimply to see if you can rent out a private pool in your area by the hour. Pool toys and snacks may not be included, so you may want to pack everything you need before heading over for a swim.
17. Going on a Bike Ride
Another cute date idea is to go on a bike ride together. If you don’t own bikes, you may be able to rent them from the city or a local company. You can research local biking trails online before you go.
18. Taking a Ferry Ride
Typically, ferry rides are pretty cheap. They may even be free. Consider taking a ride at sunset so you can enjoy a beautiful view.
19. Checking Out a Local Park
When the weather is nice, you might want to pack a blanket and some food and head to a nearby park to enjoy a lazy afternoon together–and maybe feed leftover bread to the ducks.
20. Going to a Pet Cafe
Pet cafes are now located in many towns around the county. Couples can sip on lattes while petting cute dogs and cats at the same time.
21. Renting a Canoe or Kayak
If you split the cost of a kayak or canoe rental, you can enjoy a relatively inexpensive afternoon paddling around a lake or bay together.
22. Taking a Walk in the Mall
Just because someone goes to the mall, it doesn’t mean they have to buy anything. Instead, couples can do some window shopping while eating their favorite cheap mall food like Cinnabons and Auntie Anne’s Pretzels.
23. Listening to a Podcast
Podcasts can be just as entertaining as television and movies. Consider grabbing some drinks and snacks and listening to a great podcast together.
24. Thrifting Together
Thrift stores can be treasure-troves, and also make the perfect setting for a cute and cheap date night. Bring out your creative side with this unique idea for a cheap date night. See who can find the most ridiculous outfit from the aisles of your favorite thrift store. Couples can browse the store, trying on outfits from decades past and making each other laugh.
25. Competing in a Video Game Competition
If you and your mate enjoy playing video games, consider challenging each other in a video game competition. You can offer fun rewards, such as the winner gets a gourmet home-cooked meal or doesn’t have to do any dishes all week.
26. Having a Spa Night
For couples who live together, a nice date night idea is to have a spa night at home. You can include foot massages, a bubble bath, and face masks for some relaxation, and laughs.
27. Doing Crafts Together
Couples that are feeling crafty can go to their local art store and buy the supplies they need to create something together. You might even choose a sentimental project like a wreath made of corks from bottles you’ve shared or a scrapbook of vacation memories.
The Takeaway
Going out on a “date” doesn’t have to mean dinner at a fancy restaurant, followed by a movie. With a little bit of imagination and planning, couples can enjoy a night (or day) out that costs considerably less yet can be just as romantic and fun. We hope you’ve enjoyed this list of cheap date night ideas!
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